doctor_j_crane: Crane looking neutral. (Through my glasses you look small)
doctor_j_crane ([personal profile] doctor_j_crane) wrote2011-06-30 11:28 pm

[60] - [Voice]

For reasons totally unrelated to the recent flood, I've recently turned my mind to the issue of barge romantic relationships. [Crane sounds awkward just saying it.] Frankly, I'm confused as to why anyone could ever think that it ever would work out. Ignoring numerous public examples of messy arguments between wardens and inmates alike, I've never in my experience heard of a prison being described as a good dating environment. While the inmates do obviously suffer a certain lack of options, it's the wardens that persist in romantic liaisons that surprise me.

How can your supposed relationships have real meaning if they have an expiration date date? Or would you be willing to give up your family, friends and universe for one person who seemed like a good option while you were in a prison? You can believe me when I say that it isn't only unrealistic, it's unhealthy. It's no more valuable than a relationship forged in a war zone, done by the same messy necessity and a certain need to settle for what is available, no matter how substandard. It's disturbing how easily you all seem to give in to the delusion that it means something. It doesn't. It just has that sliver more meaning than the rest of your pointless existence on the barge. Furthermore, it's a disservice to your inmates and not to mention a failure in your duties as wardens. You're not here to find meaningful relationships with each other. You're supposed to be helping us.

[Pause. Crane sounds slightly more amused.] I hadn't done this in a while. It's highly therapeutic for me to tell you all the ways that you're wrong. I recommend it highly to other inmates.

[Private- Edward Nygma]

It could be slightly related to the flood. [The longest pause.] I'm not sure that I want to talk about it. I do apologize though.

[OOC: Whoops, going to do that post and run thing. Will be back in eight hours, after sleep. <3]

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[identity profile] doctor-j-crane.livejournal.com 2011-07-10 09:05 am (UTC)(link)
Did the society you were living in condone your actions?

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[identity profile] shortsghtedlove.livejournal.com 2011-07-10 09:13 am (UTC)(link)
There were only two dissenters when I held the vote.

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[identity profile] doctor-j-crane.livejournal.com 2011-07-10 09:56 am (UTC)(link)
It sounds as if the barge is forcing their cultural standards onto you.

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[identity profile] shortsghtedlove.livejournal.com 2011-07-10 10:37 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly. Not that anyone understands that. My warden likes to think she knows everything, but in the end, she understands nothing.

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[identity profile] doctor-j-crane.livejournal.com 2011-07-11 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
She's just trying to force her opinions of what's right and wrong onto you. It's unrealistic and insensitive.

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[identity profile] shortsghtedlove.livejournal.com 2011-07-11 07:17 am (UTC)(link)
I've tried to tell her. I've tried to tell the whole Barge before. But it seems few are inclined to listen, and she's certainly not one of them.

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[identity profile] doctor-j-crane.livejournal.com 2011-07-12 12:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I agree with you. If it helps.

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[identity profile] shortsghtedlove.livejournal.com 2011-07-12 01:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I fear it won't change much, but I appreciate someone else understanding it nonetheless.

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[identity profile] doctor-j-crane.livejournal.com 2011-07-14 12:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sure it will help, just a bit.

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[identity profile] shortsghtedlove.livejournal.com 2011-07-14 12:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Perhaps.